i discovered the message.cs file.
the easiest way to change text-, border- and boxbackgroundcolor is to change it at the cs file, i guess.
for newbies to find the right place in the file quickly, you could insert a comment there. (so do i)
i noted the colors are written as "white", not as a hex code or sth. is a hex code ( # 66cc99) or a rgb value possible?
also (or otherwise), where can i find a list containing all color names that will do?
how to change the font? (eventually with "setFont"?) ==> oh it worked, i could change it

yeah!
what happens if the specified font isn't installed at the users system?
can an alpha be applied to the box background? (i've seen it in games like secret of mana, for one reason it is stylish and for another it helps to detect enemies come near because they can't "hide" unter the messagebox)
i could imagine, if one makes a rpg, it would be cool if box background color could be set different for different npcs. maybe this can be already realized with a "modulate color" for every npc?
is it possible to make an multiple answers message?